When men want sex, they can say and do the right things; but how he feels about her is revealed after the sex. Many women get great sex yet feel unloved by the man they are building a future with, many wives feel used by their husbands. Some men start the sex well, get the high and conclude it poorly; they doze off as if their objective has been met and have no need for her anymore, making her feel it's always about him. Women want more than the sexual high, to them, it is an act of intimacy, they long for affection. Man, what she needs after the climax is
One of the things I truly enjoy the most in life is going on vacation with my wife. It seems that every trip we take together is guaranteed to lead to some fantastic sex. It was with that in mind that I encouraged my wife to come with me on my next business trip. She was enjoying her usual summer off from work, and when I brought it up with her she was eager to go. I had scheduled a light workload for this trip so that we could enjoy some time together besides the long drive. The ride up was nice and I finished up my work early enough to get us a nice room at one of the local inns. We freshened up and spent the late afternoon and early evening shopping and walking the streets.
Is the secret to lasting love to take it slow? As in really, really slow? These changes have prompted hand-wringing among some experts who speculate that hookup culture, anxiety, screen time, social media and helicopter parents have left us with a generation incapable of intimacy and commitment. But Dr. Fisher takes a more generous view, and suggests that we could all learn a thing or two from millennials about the benefits of slow love.